After so many women asked us to hold another AWJ: Negotiating Intimacy series, Meredith and I are as promised, offering an 8-week long Journey starting in December. This year we are collaborating with Devin and Daway, who are holding space for the men to go through their own journey in negotiating intimacy from an authentic adult place within them.
Here is the invitation for the women.
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Dear Women,
Do you know how to nourish each of your 5 bodies? Do you feed your soul as well your heart? Do you source your own nourishment and create the intimacy adventures you want? Do you stand on your own authority to create the intimacy you want?
Do you have clarity about what that is?
Or do you wait for your partner to make the first move, to magically tell you or do the right thing? Are you still waiting to be met by your partner, friends, or teammates?
Do you often put relating with your partner above your integrity and dignity, and for unconscious fear of failing stay in a dead relating space?
This Journey is about starting over with relating and intimacy. This is a deep transformational practice space for you to burn away every relationship religion and construct, and face another human being completely naked, undefended, and without a plan, but with your Sword and your Archiarchal Seed, and standing in the clarity and power of your Conscious Feelings and Bright Principles. This is about you becoming the Spaceholder for Radical Relating.
How it works:
- you will either invite a partner to practice with for the entire 8 weeks, or be paired up by the Spaceholders.
- the partnerships will verbally and unreasonably commit to one another.
- The partners will learn and practice negotiating ongoingly how the interaction goes, what experiments and what agreements to create, so that they go on different intimacy adventures.
- the communication will be done with video, or in person at least 3 times a week;
- you will practice making offers for intimacy; getting and giving real feedback while remaining in connection; practice relating from your Upperworld and Feelings with high levels of Dignity; and perhaps have the chance to practice repairing the connection, regaining Dignity and Intimacy.
Are you ready to get out of any disempowering story you have about your aliveness and power to create the kind of relating and intimacy you truly want beyond survival strategies? Are you ready to stand on the edge of what you have known how to relate, and stay there in the unknown and adventure with a group of radically alive experimenter women who are committed to you? Are you ready to go through the mud to get to the lotus?
If you take this chance your life might change. You might not be the same person as you were before. You might be more radiant, more fierce, more assertive, less adaptive and people-pleasing, less content with crumbs, and far more dangerous.
This journey will imply feeling your fear, your anger, your sadness, and your joy, beyond the limit of what you might have allowed yourself to feel and express, as well as be seen feeling and expressing. You will not be alone. You will be part of a team of experimenters rationally committed to each woman’s success.
We invite you to be at this edge.
DATES:
8 Sundays Dec 8, 15, 22, 29; Jan. 5, 12, 26; & Feb. 2
TIMES:
10-12.30 am PT
1-3.30pm ET
7-9.30 pm CET
7-9.30 am NZT Monday
SPACEHOLDERS:
Vera Franco & Meredith Witt
INVESTMENT:
200 - 300 €/$/£
REGISTRATION:
https://forms.gle/hbZwYLTMMW1Kh5EY9